Sunday, October 12
We might have a tiny meal after all during the signing of papers and the, I do, I do thingy… I am not sure what it’s gonna be. I told moo that we didn’t need that. I had initially suggested a high tea at yumcha.com.sg if there are going to be any meals of sorts, not only its cheap, it’s not a place where we need to behave ourselves as much. He ended up wanting something better. He told me of a few places and the differences. I was kind of surprise, I didn’t know he did some research himself too. I gave up my yumcha suggestion after that, and I kind of regret raising the topic because I realize after that, that I just want to know if he is willing to do it for me if I want it. But after he agreed, I kind of feel that it’s not a need after all, for some reason he became the one to be so on about it. He even said my place of choice is too lok kok, and he have a better idea of where to hold the solemnization.
Although still having mix feelings about the tiny meal celebration, his intention alone made me feel happy.
On top of that, our initial agreement that we shouldn’t have any gowns and such was called off by him. He thought we should wear something nice. I raise objection base on affordability reason, but my objection was overruled when he firmly said “ Don’t Worry” to shut me up.
Other than that, instead of Jan the 10th, I might consult a fortune teller for the dates after all, I chose Jan 10th initially because it’s one month right after the day we’re officially together. And 011008 it is really easy to remember, too bad it’s not 007 at the back, if not I’ll be cool. 011-jamesbond. But after knowing Pam consulted a fortune teller and got the same date ( she told me before hand la, but I donno why I remember it as 16th Jan ) I thought to myself, why not consult the fortune teller too since we’re visiting him on our indo trip anyway. Sun bian sun bian
Plus when I asked moo if 10th Jan is a good idea after all, without even mentioning Pam’s wedding. He said he might want it to be at 10th of Dec instead, it is after all the exact date. I told him it’s a little too rush and why not wait until we consult the fortune teller before we decide? I forgot if he agree or disagree, I will ask again. But that’s the plan for now. Till our indecisiveness work up again.
So
10th of Jan
No Solemnization high tea/lunch
Another news is, Moo will be off to a genting trip tml, and I will be having the whole bed to myself.
No one to snatch blankets with.
And no one to strangle me in the middle of my peaceful sleep.
I can do my housework without any obstacles.
No one to buy me supper in the late night to fatten me up.
Also, no one to drive me home from work.
